Garrett and Allison: A Birth Story
We joyfully welcome the arrival of our healthy
twin babies. After 8 and 1/2 months of
pregnancy I was ready to meet my babies and discover what life with twins would
be like. Here is the story of the day of
their arrival.
Monday October 26th at 37 and 1/2 weeks pregnant
I was booked for labor induction. There
was a turning point the Thursday prior where my comfort level dramatically
plummeted. So, while I had some apprehensions about the potential
"risks" of induction, I was also very ready to tackle labor. Ryan and I arrived at the hospital at 8:30 in
the morning. "We've got a
reservation for Rostek." Ryan says to the maternity ward clerk. I was settled into an assessment room where I
was to wait until the 2 mommas laboring on the ward delivered their babies at
which point my induction would begin.
Around 10 AM I was 1cm dilated and Dr. Ross, my GP inserted the cervadil
to begin the progression of labor. It
wasn't until noon after my obstetrician Dr. Smith came to exam me (rather
vigorously) that I actually started to feel like I was starting labor. By 3PM I was 3 cm dilated and Dr. Smith moved
me to the high risk delivery room (essentially an OR on the ward for emergency c-sections)
where I would be delivering the twins.
At that point Dr. Smith broke my water ( which really hurt!) as I
squeezed the nurse and Ryan's hands tight as can be. The nurses laughed that my water broke all
over Dr. Smith (he did not seem so amused)!
Then REAL labor began. I'm not sure the exact
time; but my contractions were starting to feel more and more intense with
little break in between. In fact many of
my contractions were coupled such that a second contraction started before the
first had finished. At this point I
asked for the gas to help with pain. The
nurse said it was a bit early, but found some for me. I started using it sparingly. However, it didn't take long until the pain
became intense, much more intense than my labor with Rayna. I couldn't believe the pain was this severe,
especially because I thought I wasn't even transitioning yet. I had decided the week prior, after
discussion with Dr. Smith, that I would get an epidural. This would allow for
manipulation of Allison's position to prevent c-section if she turned after
Garrett was delivered (both were head down prior to labor) which would be too
painful for the Dr. to perform if I did not have an epidural. So I knew it was time to get the epidural and
at this point I was so glad that relief would be coming. I was examined and was 7 cm dilated and told
I would have to wait fifteen or twenty minutes for the anesthetist to
arrive. I made those minutes fade away
by sucking back on the gas almost constantly so I could pass into a sleepy
stupor. It was around 5 PM when I got my
epidural. Everything changed at this point.
I was so grateful for the pain relief. I
relaxed. Dr. Smith came shortly and assessed
me at which point I was 10cm dilated. I
gave a couple pushes but Dr. Smith wasn't satisfied enough with the progress
they gave and so instructed me to wait and let the baby descend naturally since
I was now comfortable. I found this
rather odd, but indeed I was comfortable and relaxed and the awesome nurse I
had at this point assured me that this was the best way to proceed. I was reassessed about an hour later, Dr.
Smith consulted with the OR team that he wanted in place for the delivery, and
I was told it would be 45 minutes until they were ready. So again I was to wait. Ryan was chatting away with the nurse and at
some point asked if it was ok if he grabbed some food to eat. I looked at him incredulously thinking that he
wanted to head to the cafeteria at which point he clarified and asked if he
could pop out to where our stuff was (since we were in the OR we didn't have
our belongings with us) and eat a granola bar.
This request I granted.
When the OR team was ready Dr. Smith along with a
nurse for each baby, the pediatrician, 2 residents and a medical student came
to finally deliver these babies. Dr.
Smith had been in the habit of not fully informing the other staff of what he
was up to (he was in charge after all) and so while my GP was just outside the
delivery room doing paper work while we were waiting, he ended up missing
Garrett's delivery! With the epidural it
was a bit difficult to tell when I was truly having a contraction. So when I thought one was coming I would
double check with the nurse who would then coach me on pushing. Dr. Smith chose to use forceps to help with
Garrett's delivery (I'm not 100% sure why, though apparently he is extremely
skilled at using them; and he had asked me prior if forceps were ok or if I preferred
a c-section) It didn't take long for Garrett to arrive at 9:59 PM. I didn't realize at the time, but he had the
cord wrapped around his neck. He let out
one brief cry as he was born and so he was given to me immediately. However, he began turning blue and wasn't
crying so he was whisked to the pediatrician for attention. At this point Dr. Smith was assessing the
position of Allison. I'm not entirely
sure if she remained head down or if Dr. Smith had to manipulate her position;
but she was presenting head first for delivery. Dr. Smith broke Allison's water
and again used forceps with her delivery.
She came out in very few pushes as well at 10:16PM. She didn't cry immediately and so was shown
to me, but taken immediately to be attended to by the pediatrician. Seconds later I heard her cry. I was relieved. Both my babies had been born without a
c-section!
At this point I remember thinking also,"
that felt way too easy". Modern
medicine is indeed lovely! It had been a
long day; but with the pain relief and in comparison to my 27 hour laboring
experience with Rayna, I felt great!
Both the twins at this point had been taken to the next room for brief
observation until the pediatrician was comfortable with them being handed
over. I had just delivered twins and yet
it felt so surreal, especially because I didn't have my babies yet. Ryan was able to go at this point and have
some skin-to-skin time with the babies.
Minutes later he came back holding Garrett. Allison was given to me to hold.
Eventually we made our way to a recovery room
where I was able to comfortably breastfeed the twins. Garrett looked like he was starving, sucking
on Ryan's arm, and so at the advice of the nurse I fed him first. He was given 20 minutes, then Allison was
given 20 minutes and then I fed them both together.
And so twin life has begun in the Rostek house.
