Sunday, November 6, 2016

The Diagnosis


Promises.  I have been given promises, hope, and truth.  They are not as I expected or desired.  Indeed it is hard to fathom my diagnosis: glioblastoma.  Nasty, aggressive brain cancer.  In the deep sorrow of grieving the future I had envisioned for my family, I remain steadfast. 


I am promised in Joshua 1:9 that I needn’t be afraid or discouraged because my Lord and God will be with me wherever I go.  In Psalm 118:24 I am reminded to Rejoice in this day that my Lord has given me.  I am brought to a place where I rest in how much I have been GIVEN.  I am in a place where I am ready to fight! With prayer and with determination!  I feel so very good right now and I am ready to LIVE.  I have always lived my life with no regrets, full-out, now is no exception. 


My dear friend shared these words with me about cancer:  Cancer is so limited.  Remember this. It cannot steal joy or love or family.  It cannot take your faith.  It cannot destroy peace or kill friendship.  It cannot shatter hope or steal eternal life.


I have a powerful, mighty God.  I invite you to join me in praying to Him.  Join me in asking for a miracle to destroy all these rogue cancer cells in my body.  Join me in asking for years ahead to spend with my cherished husband, children and friends.  Join me in praise to the Giver of life who has given me 35 blessed, blessed years.  Join me in the sorrow, but ultimately in the hope.  In this bad news is the good news; the news of a Savior who gives life in its fullness.  I trust that in days ahead I will “experience the love of Christ…and be filled with the fullness of life and power that comes from God.” (Ephesians 3:19)  


In these days I have been greeted with beautiful humanity.  I have a core of precious, precious friends who surround me.  These friends are in addition to the strong support of both mine and Ryan’s family. And beyond these relationships people are reaching out: coworkers, acquaintances, strangers.  It is a beautiful display of love; it is Christ’s love reaching out through meals, childcare and petitioning unrelenting prayer and intercession on my behalf.  Oh how beautiful it is!


Truly I have tried to put words to a situation that has no words good enough to describe.  Thank you for journeying with me.  You are invited to journey with me here as I update you on my medical situation.  If you would like to automatically be emailed my posts please send me your email address through comment or to cheryl.rostek@gmail.com




9 comments:

  1. Oh my dear cousin. You and your family are in my prayers and my mom and dad's. To see your unshakable faith during this trial is such a testament to your character. I love you dear Cheryl and we will be praying for you and Ryan and the kids. Much love Lonette.

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  2. I don't know you personally, just recognize you from church. You are a wonderful writer. You are in my prayers and I would like to be kept updated. sonjadyck@hotmail.com

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  3. Dear Cheryl and Ryan
    Know you are being showered in prayer. The song from Natalie Grant, In Christ Alone rings so true in times like this.
    In Christ alone my hope is found
    He is my light, my strength, my song
    This Cornerstone, this solid ground
    Firm through the fiercest drought and storm
    What heights of love, what depths of peace
    When fears are stilled, when strivings cease
    My Comforter, my All in All
    Here in the love of Christ I stand
    Our Love, The Hampsons

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  4. I am encouraged by your strength and love how the Father is carrying you. You have many across the sea lifting you up, and they have never even met you. That's tythe beauty of the family of Christ. Please add me to your email updates. Thanks friend. Love you, Rebs

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  5. Dear Cheryl (and Ryan)
    Hi cousin! thank you for sharing your very personal journey with us all. We are honored to be able to join with you in prayer, and will indeed accept your invitation and challenge to do so! It's been years since we have seen you last, but we will keep you close - our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! God bless and keep you all!
    Curtis and Lisa, Jacob and Isaiah

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  6. Hi Cheryl and Ryan.
    I don't know you personally but I am a friend of a friend of yours. I have been praying for you and your family over these last few weeks and I will continue to pray over the next weeks, months and years.
    I would love to be updated with your blog to know how best to be praying for you
    With love, hope and faith
    Stephanie Dykstra

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  7. Praying for you and your family

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